You Say You Want A Man…Get Ready!

Ephesians 6:15 And with your feet fitted with readiness that comes from the gospel of peace.

           

            The mother of the King Lemuel, although little is known about this king, was given great words of wisdom in Proverbs 31:10-31. This mother wanted her son to know the qualities that a woman of character would possess, so that he would not make the mistake of choosing the wrong type. In her description, she told her son that to find a woman of good character was more valuable than jewels and that he, as a husband, would be able to have complete confidence in a woman of such standing.

            She would be the type of woman who would build him up and not bring him harm. She would be eager to work with her hands and therefore, idleness would not have room to stay. She would always put her family first, under God, and would see to it that their needs are met. She is the first one up and the last one to lie down at night. She ensures that her family is cloth for the various seasons of the year. A woman of character empathizes with the poor and does what she can to assist. Her home reflects her worth and she is well-respected amongst those with whom her husband befriends. 

            This mother gave words of wisdom to her son, which are words that can be still used today. Many women are in a season of waiting for a God-fearing man. For those who already have Godly husbands, you have been blessed beyond measure. Proverbs 18:22 He who finds a wife finds what is good and receives favor from the Lord. (NIV) For those who are still waiting for their mate, be patient because God will give you His ultimate best. Allow Him to give you the strength to have faith and know that even though the waiting may seem long, He will keep you and help you to remain strong as your mind stays focused on Him. Isaiah 40:31 But those who hope in the Lord will renew their strength They will soar on wings like eagles; they will run and not grow weary, they will walk and not faint. (NIV)

            The Apostle Paul lets us know that our feet must be fitted with readiness that comes from the gospel of peace. All warriors’ attire must be fitted appropriately, so that they will be able to maneuver accordingly in battle. Your shoes must fit and your feet must be planted firmly on the Word of God. This is what is needed in all aspects of our lives. If a soldier’s shoe was not tied correctly in battle, it could cost him his life. The distraction alone would be of such significance that the enemy could get the upper hand. Preparation is needed and therefore, by studying the Word of God, and knowing which weapons and attire is best suited for whatever battle we face, is the only way to overcome the darts of the enemy rather it be in the form of family issues, marital problems, singleness, employee relations and/or other. 

            For those of you who are single warriors, as you wait for God’s best, take the time to allow God to work on YOU. Prepare yourself to be the wife that God would have you to be. Ask Him to make you ready for the mate that He will give you. If you do not know how to cook…LEARN. If you do not practice good housekeeping…START. If you are not good with communication…PRACTICE. If you do not know how to budget…BUY A CALCULATOR. If you are a gossip machine…STOP. All warriors must prepare to be a soldier before they are ever put into an actual battle. Do not just ask God to bless you with something, but take steps towards readying yourself for when He does. James 2:17 …Faith by itself, if it is not accompanied by action, is dead. (NIV)