James 3:3-5 (3)When we put
bits into the mouths of horses to make them obey us, we can turn the whole
animal. (4)Or take ships as an example. Although they are so large and are driven by
strong winds, they are steered by a very small rudder wherever the pilot wants
to go. (5)Likewise, the tongue is a small part of the body, but it makes great
boasts. Consider what a great forest is set on fire by a small spark. (NIV)
There
were two students in a math class being taught by a new teacher name by Mr.
Edwards. Both students were having trouble in math. Mr. Edwards, being the
concerned teacher that he was, had a meeting with the boys’ families in order
to offer assistance to them. After speaking with both families individually,
they agreed to allow the students to get help from a couple of tutors, which
the school had hired, to help students struggling in various subjects.
One
of the boys did very well and at the end of the semester had raised his math
grades from making D’s to B’s. The other boy’s grades continued to plummet and
even though the tutor tried his best to help, the boy could not seem to bring
his math grades up. The teacher had a talk with both students at the end of the
semester in order to let them know their progress. The one boy was happy to
know that he had raised his grades up and told Mr. Edwards that he was getting
great support from both the tutor and his family. However, the other boy, who
did not fair so well, told his teacher that his family thought that he was dumb
and often told him as much. Mr. Edwards looked surprised to hear what the boy
had said, but he understood why the boy was failing. It was due to him being
told by his family that he couldn’t do it instead of being told that he could.
The
Apostle James lets us know that the tongue, even though small, has great power.
It can either be used for good, or it can be a tool for evil. The words that
come from a person’s mouth can help lift someone up to new heights or destroy
them by bringing them down and making them feel unlovable. Proverbs 12:18 The
words of the reckless pierce like swords, but the tongue of the wise brings
healing. (NIV) How many times have you been encouraged by someone who
offered you a few words of care? This is why greeting’s cards do so well in
stores. People love to hear encouraging words rather they are sick, dying, in
despair, or lonely. A good word can make for a cheerful heart. Proverbs
17:22 A cheerful heart is good medicine, but a crushed spirit dries up the
bones. (NIV)
As
men of God, it is important to be the mouth of encouragement in the home,
church and beyond. God is looking for men who will take their rightful
positions for His kingdom. The apostles were all chosen men of God to carry out
his message. They used their voices for good and never evil. Why not follow
their example? Allow God to use you in a mighty way by being the mouthpiece
that He has called you to be.